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Ask Men 2w

I can’t seem to get over the guys I’ve talked to/ almost dated in my past and it breaks my heart to an extent that they’ve all moved on and have happy relationships with other people, why is it that i can’t just move on and I’m stuck in the past

Anonymous 2w

you are probably just being neurotic and obsessive, as corny as it sounds the solution really is to just stop thinking about them altogether.

Anonymous 2w

Like I haven’t had a boyfriend before and I haven’t had anyone significant in my life in years and it makes me so upset and anxious and angry

Anonymous 2w

Theories: Anxiety disorder Autism Attachment issue Low self worth

Anonymous

#1 2w

wait explain the second one

Anonymous

OP 2w

People on ASD often yearn for “normal” relationships but struggle getting them. I’m not diagnosing u btw

Anonymous

#1 2w

honestly think it’s a mix of all of those lmao

Anonymous

stanczyk 2w

I used to be kinda like you until some point in freshman year of high school when i realized how unproductive it was and just beat my brain into submission and refused to entertain thoughts of "what could've been"

Anonymous

stanczyk 2w

i know it just sucks especially because i haven’t had anyone to distract myself with and move on with

Anonymous

OP 2w

distraction is not the solution, it is mental autonomy to not only make choices about how you act, but to actively and consciously choose what you think about and how you think about it.