Confessions on Yik Yak | i love my bf but i have to give up enjoying penetrative sex bc he’s small. i don’t want to have to compromise with fingers and oral. i wanna enjoy sex regularly. no i don’t wanna cheat. but sex isn’t the only thing i love him for so it’s fine.

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i love my bf but i have to give up enjoying penetrative sex bc he’s small. i don’t want to have to compromise with fingers and oral. i wanna enjoy sex regularly. no i don’t wanna cheat. but sex isn’t the only thing i love him for so it’s fine.

Anonymous 1w

Suggest the use of toys fs. Ik you don’t want to compromise but if you want your needs to be met you will have to.

Anonymous 1w

Toys are also an option

Anonymous 1w

They have sleeves that go over his dick to make him bigger Have him fuck uou with that until you cum and then he slides it off and fucks toy more until he cums Maybe you even get to cum twice in this process sometimes

Anonymous 1w

Ooooof I had this same exact issue with my ex. I tried so hard to ignore the issue and thought love would just be enough. Maybe it's bc he was also a horrible bf, but over time, resentment towards him festered and my yearning to get properly dicked down kinda drove me insane.

Anonymous 1w

look into sleeves or things like that, i don't have the equipment to use them but i've heard that it's still pleasurable for both parties

Anonymous

#1 1w

he knows i use toys and such but you don’t think that would make it awkward? we’ve never done that before.

Anonymous

#3 1w

He refused to use any toys or to do anything beyond the most bland basic vanilla shit, while having a legit micro. And in relationships, my sex drive is CRAZY HIGH. So ts fucking killed me. Sex and sexual compatibility is actually a very very important element of romantic relationships. It sounds shallow, and no one wants to be shallow, but it is what it is. Good luck 😭

Anonymous

OP 1w

no not at all!! using toys with a partner is amazing imo. it’s a great way to be intimate and you can explore what the other likes. if he thinks it’s weird and refuses to do something that brings you pleasure, that’s a red flag

Anonymous

#3 1w

i’m sorry you had to go through that. that sounds miserable and i’m glad you’re out of it now. luckily i’m in a situation where he’s perfect in every other aspect. very loving, kind, overall amazing person. it’s just that. i’ll try suggesting toys like everybody is saying. i wish you the best in all other relationships! hope you got what you wanted later on.

Anonymous

#2 1w

thanks pooh

Anonymous

#5 1w

i’ll def try suggesting it today