only way to do that it seems is to breakup, focus on urself again then wait til ur ready to try again
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Anonymous#13d
i just don’t wanna break up with him tho, he’s perfect on paper and i know i did love him at one point so what if i can get it back
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AnonymousOP3d
find out why and when it started. journal, consider therapy. get to the root. a fundamental need of yours might not be being met by him
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AnonymousOP3d
And what if you don’t them back? What then? You’d be stringing your bf along in the meantime, and that’s not fair to him at all. If it’s meant to be you two will find each other again, so there’s no need to make yourself feel stuck