
I would give instruction and feedback 100 out of 100 times if a girl genuinely wanted to get better. Men don’t want to insult their way out of future blowjobs so that’s why you hear “omgosh babe you’re the best ever”. We build you up instead of critiquing your skills because we want more later. If we said “that wasn’t that great” would you even feel like trying again?
Actually I would appreciate the honest feedback lol! If a guy told me it wasn’t that great but was still willing to let me try again some other time, then I’d be down to keep trying/practicing until it did feel good. I personally get satisfied knowing that I actually pleased someone else, if I’m not pleasing them then I’d want to get better so I can!