
even using condoms doesn’t prevent all stds and that would also mean no oral which is boring. testing isn’t perfect either bc testing for herpes isn’t recommended bc it’s not accurate. i’m poly but i’d rather have fewer partners that i can trust with my health and my body. trust me if i could just date someone and not worry about their penis size my life would be so much easier 🙏 it’s caused me and people i love so much heartbreak