Anonymous #1 1d

The belt we do a lot. I have a soft leather one that’s been PERFECT. Anal would be new territory. I think if I said I really wanted to try it she would absolutely give it a shot but that would take MUCH learning and prep on my part. Not to mention I’m not sure I’m built for anal 😂😅 is the stimulation worth all the prep???

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Anonymous #2 1d

This seems like good advice to consider but I’m not sure I understand fully. What do you mean the partner turns? I’m like a heeler; I got high energy and I love giving. I don’t think I would ever get tired of this.

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Anonymous OP 1d

A dopamine loop basically has the partner turn because they need the dopamine and no one can sustain such highs. Doing this from time to time is fine but seeking such highs constantly basically has the mind to focus on these highs and she will turn for someone that gives her a bigger high. It is a paradox about pleasing people basically.

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Anonymous OP 1d

One thing I see now is how people seek out the social energy of others and want it to be a rollercoaster ride. There is fun and allure to this but overtime the same tv show, the same theme parks, running out of places to vacation to eventually makes it hard to keep these highs. So it’s short term in the end.

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Anonymous #2 1d

Wow this actually explains a lot cause I’ve never partnered with someone who didn’t cheat on me 😂😂😂 at this point I just don’t take it so personally.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Ok so I’ve been the first time for a few women and to make it pleasurable for them it’s important to massage the hole a bit and go slow. Actually slow. As in go in like at the tip, and pull out, only going a centimeter more each time til it feels like you’ve gotten past those first set of muscles. By the time you’ve kinda got the tip in it should feel a bit more wet. I like to fuck her pussy before I start doing anal so I can use her juices (it’s also kinda hot lol)

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Anonymous OP 1d

The stimulation is definitely worth the prep btw. Many women I’ve been with have also orgasmed from anal because you can somehow still hit their gspot, but that’s circumstantial honestly both on your anatomy and hers

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Anonymous #1 1d

This is why foreplay is important. Even from touching of the hands one can be stimulated because the senses are primed. What happens is people are funneled to a narrow band within their senses and their timing differs. Foreplay expands the senses and synchs the clocks so that any approach of the senses can make them sensitive.

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