Anonymous cobaltcrow 4d

Damn I need to be ur friend

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just 5 rn

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Anonymous #2 4d

it’s easy to fuck your friends if you’re not thirsty and weird about it

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Anonymous cobaltcrow 4d

Would I be correct in assuming that bringing up the idea is the hardest part about starting a FWB relationship?

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Anonymous #5 4d

i don’t bring it up. i just think sexuality is interesting, fun, and doesn’t have to be deep. just don’t be weird and horny when you talk about it and your attitudes on that and respecting women will eventually show you’re a safe person to be fwb with. then if they bring it up it’s like a sure why not, just be chill about it. you’re safe or you’re not, there’s no tricks or things you’re supposed to say that magically works.

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Anonymous cobaltcrow 4d

Thistbh

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Anonymous cobaltcrow 4d

Thank you, that makes sense. But still, I find it super difficult to talk about it. I’m someone that likes to make sure I know where everyone’s boundaries are before we go into anything sexual. Should I just go out of my comfort zone and ask a couple good friends rather than be overcautious about it?

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Anonymous #5 4d

boundaries and knowing what people like are also convo topics you can flow into naturally, but if it’s out of your comfort zone, idk about forcing it. can’t really give much advice there, sex has always been fun and casual for me where friends and fwb can just be the same thing imo. for you i’d approach it with good friends as a convo not even about fwb. don’t drop any hints, vibes, nothing about it being about them or else it’s just creepy

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Anonymous cobaltcrow 4d

Cool, thank you. That’s kind of what I’ve been thinking, but that still helps. I appreciate the advice!

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