A lot of places in the US are very similar to where specifically in Alabama I’m from with homophobia; people who are lucky enough to live in very blue areas tend to forget PLENTY other places exist that aren’t nearly as fortunate homophobia-wise. Just because you specifically haven’t struggled doesn’t mean there’s not plenty of places all across the US where people are facing homophobia everyday and to say otherwise is truly one of the most ignorant, blind, and privileged claims I’ve seen
Please keep up the eternal victim mindset it’ll take you many places in life, she probably shouldn’t try to sell out shows and make more music if she doesn’t like publicity because she’s gonna receive it and it doesn’t give her a reason to lash out on people when all the people in her industry have dealt with it sensibly and for longer