Anonymous #4 108w

That is NOT how to be upfront. You be upfront by saying “hey full disclosure I’m attracted to you” and then you ask if you can send sexual shit like that. It’s not the wording that is the problem, it’s the fact that they sent a detailed sexual fantasy out of the blue.

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Anonymous #5 108w

Is that not a dating app?

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Anonymous #5 108w

Well yeah I’m not saying what he/she did was valid I was saying it takes a lot to confidence to say that to someone

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I think it’s both cause I do agree with #5 it was weird

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Anonymous #4 108w

Not confidence, disrespect for people and a lack of care for their comfort. Dating app or not, from this screenshot it seems out of the blue.

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Anonymous #6 108w

Doesn’t matter because nobody in their right mind talks like that on a dating app out of the blue. Like some others said, it’s lack of self awareness and social ineptitude above all else. If anyone sees this as a confident alpha move to be emulated then they’re setting themselves up for disappointment.

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Anonymous #2 108w

and?

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Anonymous #6 108w

Being on a dating app doesn’t mean you can sexually harass people. Consent still exists, even on the internet

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Bro if u think its ok to do that to people without their consent u r fucked

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Anonymous #21 108w

This is a stretch

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Anonymous #21 108w

If he’s hot, I’m down

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Anonymous #26 108w

find yo father

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Anonymous #15 108w

first

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Anonymous #26 108w

It’s not a stretch there are literally laws that say unwanted sexual advances INCLUDING VERBAL AND TEXT is sexual harassment

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Anonymous #21 108w

This is them discussing it. How are you supposed to ask what you want without going into detail? He even said it as a questioning. It’s not a dick pic. It’s an offer.

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Anonymous #5 108w

How do you know what went on beforehand?

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Anonymous #10 108w

😂😂😂

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Anonymous #16 108w

yea but he crazy tho. big red flag

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Anonymous #15 108w

There's nothing wrong w the kink itself, it's just gross that he was saying all his fantasies to someone he doesn't even know

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Anonymous #8 108w

I’m not defending this person, but it’s not fair how yall attack him either. He could honestly have mental/social deficits or simply never learned proper manners, either way, it’s not like he was trying to cause someone harm. I’ve gotten legit threats on tinder, so if some text on a screen makes you genuinely upset and hurt instead of just blocking the person and moving on, maybe you shouldn’t be on dating apps in the first place

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Anonymous #28 108w

Yeah it’s the fact there was like 0 lead up that makes this feel nasty. Just straight into the explicit message

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Anonymous #4 108w

Kinda uh nice? I have a boyfriend I am not allowed to judge this

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Anonymous #15 108w

ur defense it was definitely u

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Anonymous #36 108w

Mental or social deficits don’t make you immune to criticism

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Anonymous #14 108w

it’s sexual harassment. grow the fuck up and learn how to put an effort into having a conversation, like a normal fucking person. you clearly don’t comprehend how to have a normal discussion if you think this is what it should entail.

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Anonymous #43 108w

It’s a dating app. More than likely both had hookup in the thing. Bffr

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Anonymous #14 108w

bffr like you attempting to downplay literal sexual harassment? being in a dating app doesn’t justify your dogshit mentality and actions, but i wouldn’t expect someone like you to comprehend that.

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