
I used to have the same thing. Honestly I felt like that for a while, and then I started to view it as a fun little not quite secret. I’d tell people if they asked, but who would ask? I got way more comfortable when I made more queer friends. Even if I only ever dated men, they’d know win not lying. They know me. We trust each other. Not saying this is the route you have to take, just saying it won’t feel like this forever. You don’t have to tell people. You don’t owe people looking queer
Hear me out do whatever you want, most people (even if they don’t agree) won’t care as long as it’s you doing your thing and not bothering anyone, so do you. And fuck anyones opinion who tries to tell you what you should do, even me. Again for the people in the back…. just do your shit and no one will have a problem.