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Should I tell a girl that her bf messaged me (even if it was just an innocent tiktok)? She told him that she’s uncomfortable with us being friends and I unfollowed him bc I didn’t want him speaking to me after she said that. I’ll put more context in cmnts
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Anonymous 19h

She doesn’t want us being friends because he broke up with her, then hooked up with me, and I informed her. He kept on speaking to me in person & even started describing our hookup in front of my friends. I told her, she’s still with him. Idk if I should tell her this little thing bc ik she’ll stay. And also bc it’s such a small thing, but it’s the principle that icks me out. He messaged me even when she told him not to. I know it wasn’t much but he would’ve kept talking to me if I hadn’t told him

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Anonymous 17h

Personally, I think you should because that's weird he'd do that and his partner would appreciate knowing

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Anonymous 18h

Idk if you have to tell her but if you feel like you should just to keep the board clear I think that’s perfectly fine. Sounds like the dude sucks so def could be trying to test your willpower. So I would just say trust your gut.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

-to stop

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

I agree with what the others have said here, definitely let her know. I think you should also pay close attention to how she reacts since it's such a delicate situation.

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