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If I were to get into a relationship I would want to have sex but everyone and their mama always says that men ONLY care about sex and nothing else and I am just afraid that if I agree to have sex then I wouldn’t know if he is only using me for sex. F19
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Anonymous 1d

It’s very easy to tell if he’s only doing it for sex. If he’s only hanging out in a situation that will lead to sex then you have your answer

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Anonymous 1d

There’s cool guys out there. Just meet someone you like and hangout a lot before you even kiss, eventually you’ll be in a relationship and have sex, sometimes the hangouts might lead to sex (guilty) but if he’s texting, initiating hangouts and helping you run errands then you knows he’s a nice guy. F21 PS you are not stupid for being worried

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Anonymous 1d

Dang you guys are right, now I feel stupid asf 🥲

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Anonymous 22h

girl use him for sex and move on. turn the tables

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22h

Horrid advice

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

not everyone can handle the truth

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22h

Thats not a truth dumb dumb You just gave advice thats one, horrible and two, doesn’t apply to what she wants

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

This. If he won’t go out to the park, or to a concert, or study, or otherwise a place where you’re not gonna fuck, then he just wants to fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

1. i was giving advice that related to MY experience with men 2. don’t tell me the way i live MY LIFE is horrible 3. if you can’t understand that men simply aren’t for relationships that’s on u boo. u can chase a man and hope he loves u but im not going to.

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Anonymous 21h

1. Your advice is terrible and reflects on you as a terrible person 2. You are literally advocating for treating others horribly. You do not get to be upset because someone called you horrible 3. She explicitly says “if I were to get into a relationship” and is concerned with being used by a man. Pretty obvious what she wants.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

me when i’m a terrible person because i live in reality

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

You live in a delusion because you hate men. You’re a sad person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

OH MY GODDDD LMFAOOO are you a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

Man you’re miserable

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

Nope, just don’t hate ALL of them. Don’t get me wrong, I hate plenty, but you also meet plenty of good ones when you put yourself in good situations to find them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

i have beautiful relationships with women and i fuck men for my sexual needs i really think im winning here

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

no amt of “holy wow you’re miserable” is gonna change me 😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

Well you’re on the internet spreading hatred. Doesn’t really seem like you’re all too happy. And generally, people who are “winning” don’t need to tell others that they’re winning. You seem like a shallow, hateful narcissist, and I’m sorry for whoever has to interact with you on a regular basis.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

this has me cackling

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

My intention wasn’t to change you I dont even think you can be changed Your problem is that healthy romantic relationship are unfathomable to you. You had shitty experiences? Sorry, that sucks But no need to negatively rain on anyone elses parade instead of just giving constructive advice

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

you’re taking this so seriously notice how i haven’t said a word about you ur just attacking ppl online for no reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

Glad I could bring you some joy at least :) Have a good day sweetheart. Spread love! It’s good for you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

bitches hate to see a woman happy and not center men

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

You’re attacking an entire demographic online lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

holy WHO CARES

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

Big difference between “not centering” men and advocating to maliciously manipulate them

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

You! You brought it up! Men cause you so much rage that you felt the need to comment this!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

Just spitting by out words

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

i have awesome experiences fucking men i don’t care about it gen brings me joy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

THANK YOUUUUU She literally needs men for pleasure and she’s acting like wanting a connection alongside that is male centred Get out of here😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

Who said having sex isn’t supposed to bring you joy? Sex is enjoyable OBVIOUSLYYYYYYYYYYY

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

so why are we fighting with me girl…

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

You don’t need to date them lol, but you should have a baseline level of care for all other humans that causes you to not manipulate them into sex. If you just wanna hookup, be honest about that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

Because OP wants sex AND connection. You’re calling us male centred and telling OP to just fuck guys when thats not what SHE wants

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

do you really think the men care?? you aren’t thinking like them lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

Because you’re telling someone who WANTS a connection not to seek one because of your own shitty experiences

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

Yep! I have plenty of close platonic male friends actually. Having this perception of any demographic as a hive mind makes you seem not just like a terrible person, but genuinely unintelligent as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

i’m glad you have great male friends. me personally i would not

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

because all of this is crazy, you’re actively shaming ME saying i’m shaming other people. clearly ur third eye simply isn’t open enough for ts

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

Chile lets leave her girl She might actually not have the brain capacity to comprehend what we’re saying

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20h

Shaming someone FOR shaming others is normal. Shaming others for no reason is not. How this helps baby girl :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

You’re right. You can try to fix hate, but you can’t fix stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

you’re both naive as hell if you genuinely believe the shit ur saying

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

point to the message where i shamed others please

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20h

Just openly being awful to ALL men and saying they aren’t for anything but sex. Come on honey, we’re all in this thread.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

not everyone can handle the truth pt2

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

bitches hate me cuz i’m lustful

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

Now, I personally think it’s fine to have sex a lot. Hell, I think it’s fine for it to be the majority of your hanging out. My boyfriend and I fuck about 80% of the time we’re together. It’s not because that’s all either of us wants to do, but we’re both more stay-in kinds of people, and we watch a lot of movies, or cuddle, or play games, and one thing leads to another because we are both attracted to each other and like sex lol. Never feel guilty for having sex.

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