Ask Anything on Yik Yak | How come I’m always being told I’m hot yet still girls only ever see me as a friend? This isn’t on some incel shit either I just genuinely don’t understand

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Ask Anything 9w

How come I’m always being told I’m hot yet still girls only ever see me as a friend? This isn’t on some incel shit either I just genuinely don’t understand

Anonymous 9w

You can be conventionally attractive without being someone’s romantic type

Anonymous 9w

You have no edge. You’re safe, vanilla. Like a brother. Next time you see one tell them you had a hookup with a girl from tinder. Then joke about how you gave them a fake name and number - because they always get attached afterward and you can’t have a girl distract you from your career. They’ll eventually as “what about me? I’m a girl” Then tell them that they’re “different, you’re like sister to me. I don’t see you sexually like that”

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Anonymous

#1 9w

This. Also not to pry, but how do you know they only see you as a friend? Like have you asked?

Anonymous

#2 9w

Yeah, maybe they’re waiting on OP to make a move

Anonymous

#2 9w

Im not really talking about a specific person in general I just have a lot of female friends but girls rarely ever seem romantically interested in me

Anonymous

#4 9w

Yeah I’m not gonna do that bro, also I’m in college I don’t have a career lmao

Anonymous

OP 9w

Shit dude. Never too early to think about your future. The girl probably sense that too. What do you do? Just school?

Anonymous

OP 9w

If I were you I’d straight up ask your friends honestly. Even if they don’t really have an answer, that kind of honesty/vulnerability is a good way to deepen a friendship in my experience