Anonymous #1 22h

But my parents haven’t spoke to me in a month since I got my own apartment

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Anonymous OP 22h

No

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Anonymous OP 22h

yk they don’t always have to reach out to u first. ever think of calling them in general?

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Anonymous OP 22h

Congrats on the new apartment 🍻

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Anonymous #3 22h

It’s a question because the last few months our relationship has been strained. A couple of weeks before I graduated he threatened not to come because I said I have class pretty all summer so I can’t go home all that much. He took my tone as disrespectful and said no one will be there for my graduation. I swallowed my pride b/c I really wanted to see my family. It hurt me so bad that my family don’t see me as my own person and that I’m here because of my own efforts also.

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Anonymous #3 22h

I’m thankful for their previous support however they hurt me so much. I still love my parents it just hurts to be with them

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Anonymous OP 22h

usually family doesn’t cut u off unless ur a problem also. maybe look at urself

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Anonymous #5 22h

I text them back after calling me a liar and bringing religion into me getting an apartment. It took me a week to process everything and I messaged them. My parents haven’t contact me back and it’s to the point they have my little sister and uncle to stop communicating with me also. My sister and I used to message everyday but she hasn’t since my parents stop talking to me

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Anonymous OP 22h

i’m not reading all dat

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Anonymous #5 22h

I did look at myself and I asked many others if I’m being unreasonable. My family does. Like they stated multiple times if I don’t believe in their religion I will no longer will receive their support

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Anonymous OP 22h

I’m so sorry that’s so awful and unfair. Be kind to yourself ❤️

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Anonymous #5 21h

Then don’t respond if u don’t want to hear the situation. It’s not a clear cut answer to this situation

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Anonymous #6 21h

Thank you so much. This situation is difficult and I want to tell my dad happy Father’s Day but idk the point to. I still love them no matter how much they hurt me. No matter what I do they think it’s because I hate them.

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Anonymous OP 21h

if you think the majority of people are going to sympathize for u on yikyak for ur problems u have issues.

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Anonymous #5 21h

I do have issues thank you. I’m need help and a lot of it. I need therapy but I can’t get it. So the fact I’m going to yik yak just to understand what I should do. I know it’s pitiful but I don’t know what else to do.

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Anonymous #4 21h

Should I tell my dad happy Father’s Day or just leave it? I still appreciate a lot of what my dad has done. No matter what I do my parents think I hate them.

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Anonymous OP 21h

use reddit or some shi

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Anonymous #5 21h

How about u just don’t comment. Like please stop trolling

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What’s the difference?

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Anonymous OP 21h

Don’t worry about them they’re grown adults, worry about yourself

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Anonymous #7 21h

I want to take that feedback however did u upvote #5? Like im leaning towards saying happy Father’s Day. I just need to know if u agree with #5?

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Anonymous OP 21h

I do agree with 5 about calling them first sometimes.

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Anonymous #7 21h

Did u read what I said?

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Anonymous #5 18h

Girlie some people are just lowkey toxic and mean people and have nothing better to do that cause problems for other people. I mean LOL just look at yourself, you literally have commented so many times to OP and for what? You said your bit, now literally stop yapping to hear yourself talk. As someone who also comes from a house hold with a toxic family and an extremely narcissistic father, it is not always a problem with the individual. So in some #5 stop being annoying and OP your NITW.

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Anonymous #5 8h

lol parents cut off their kids for basic disagreements all the time 😂 and if you read any of the other comments they made it was over religious differences. Bad parents cut their kids off for dumb shit.

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