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how do i know if a guy wants a relationship or just a hookup

Anonymous 7w

Probably just assume they aren’t serious until they commit to you. I’m someone who takes dating seriously and I recently had a guy tell me they’re looking for long term and treat treated me like they wanted to date me and then they randomly flipped a switch and said they needed space or that they’re too busy (most of the time if they do that it’s because another girl has their attention) so honestly don’t take any guy seriously and make them chase you. Never chase a guy to prove your worth.

Anonymous 7w

Ask him….

Anonymous 7w

if he only talks to you at night

Anonymous

#1 7w

Even if they’re consistent in the beginning by talking to you and hanging out, truthfully it doesn’t even mean shit because at some point they switch up. Actions over words always & hold true to your values and boundaries because you don’t want a guy making you look like a fool because a lot of them be doing that unfortunately. In general, it’s hard to find genuine people now that want a real relationship.

Anonymous 7w

Not saying to have the same mentality for every person you meet, but it’s better to just be aware. You can have those doubts until they prove to you with actions they’re serious

Anonymous 7w

Yes, doesn’t matter what gender, it is hard to find genuine people nowadays. I think the lesson is to not take anyone serious until they prove to you why you should.

Anonymous 7w

You don’t until they show you their true colors. A fake persona only lasts so long until you can see through it

Anonymous 7w

Yes 100%, plus you’re just more aware of what red flags to look for