I'm having an interesting time thinking about this bc I've heard of the stereotype in person, though I haven't seen anything like what you're describing in the communities around me.. granted I'm white and this could be a very culturally subjective experience so I'm not saying that stuff doesn't happen
So I did some reading.. and black individuals "are significantly more likely to be victims of intimate partner violence than other racial groups".. so there's probably something there too With Hispanic people also having increased rates, which is interesting bc I was never physically attacked until I dated a Latina