chalant all the way coming from a chalant girl…

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i don’t think you should get answers from strangers on the internet about who to be. I think it’s more important to figure out who you wanna be first & try and find sb that aligns with YOU and your values. but hey that’s just me

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men who play wit they worm

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Genuine men

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If you go too far in either direction at first, it makes me feel like your just bored and playing with me. Act like you don’t care, and you don’t care about me. Put in way too much effort, and it feels like you’re doing it for the bit. This is probably just because of insecurities so don’t go applying it to everyone, but like. Ik it’s worn out advice but just be yourself. Be a human person I can talk to and trust, not a caricature

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Chalant

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CHALANT

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Honest: a mix of both. In other words… be NORMAL. Don’t do too much but also don’t have me questioning whether you actually like me or not. Personally I just don’t like boys who are loud and obnoxious. Bringing someone flowers and being sweet to them isn’t being too much tho, that’s like what’s expected. (What do I know tho, I’ve never had a bf 😀)

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if someone called me "chalant" I would fucking die laughing

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I think I prefer chalant men but then when a man is too nice to me I get icked out. It’s bad Ik

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CHALANTTT

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