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Okay so I feel like a horrible person right now because I cannot stop thinking about one of my guy friends who I feel like right now is the only one that really sees me. I would go as far as considering him one of my best friends. The bad part is I…
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Anonymous 1w

Go on

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Anonymous 1w

Have a boyfriend, but I have to wear the pants because he is so unstable right now. I really love him, I just feel so unseen with him because I have to always be there, and I guess I just want someone there for me for once. What do I do? Do I keep pushing with my bf? I am so scared tbh because I don’t want to lose him

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Anonymous 1w

DO NOTTT go to the best friend until things are OVER with your boyfriend for atleast a month. you’re feeling seen but the moment your bf sees you again, you’ll regret if you did anything with someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

ig i don’t understand the hiccup rn? does your bf feel threatened by him or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

No, I am just terrified because I don’t know if I am developing feelings for my guy friend or if I just feel seen for once and don’t want it to stop. I am really confused. I have been with my boyfriend for years, and we have been long distance for the last like 2, and recently it has felt like I have had to do everything on my own, and my guy friend has been the only one to really step up and make sure I am okay and what not

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

The deal with my boyfriend is he has also been dealing with a lot and we have not been able to be there for each other like we would really want to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i mean it sounds like your bf has been neglectful. voicing this feeling and what you need from him would be imperative. but also if he’s not going to listen or enact change and you’re fairly sure then i think you know what the next steps would be

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