Ask Anything on Yik Yak | Why does it seem like a lot of people are obsessed with trying to lose their virginity sometimes? Idk it just feels gross and like they’re wanting to use their first sexual partner just for that goal

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Ask Anything 17h

Why does it seem like a lot of people are obsessed with trying to lose their virginity sometimes? Idk it just feels gross and like they’re wanting to use their first sexual partner just for that goal

Anonymous 16h

It’s because of social pressure and because they see everyone around them losing it and think they’re worse for not, but that’s not true! For me I’m waiting until the right situation and connection

Anonymous 16h

Hi OP, I kept mine. It is not worth for a ballon pop with someone who doesn’t care. The ballon pop is a scam. Foreplay can give much more and it is a lost art.

Anonymous 16h

the idea of "pristine" virginity was created by patriarchal evangelical culture. it doesnt really matter what a person chooses to do with their virginity, and a lot of people in fact want to fuck so they get it over with. if you happen to what a more intimate experience then more power to you, my friend. i would investigate why sex gives you gross feelings and let go of the shame you feel

Anonymous

#1 16h

Yeah I don’t really care either way for myself personally but it’s just the way some people talk about it, gives me the ick real bad

Anonymous

#2 16h

I’ve never heard the term ballon pop before, is it basically just losing virginity?

Anonymous

OP 16h

Science shows that hookups don’t achieve pleasure versus intimacy. The studies don’t really say it but basically long lasting partners learn each other’s bodies and emotions and map them. The timing of their pleasure and how to approach differs and it’s like a dance for them to dance together and be primed so pleasure is achieved at the same time. The ballon pop is at best 10% of peak pleasure that can last.

Anonymous

OP 16h

For a ballon pop, the timing will be off and the differences among partners will show when they don’t know or care about each other enough. All they can get is a ballon pop. Now there is a workout that some do which is being rough that taps into the primal senses being on edge heightens all the different senses. Such things can be dangerous and makes sex a drug.