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I’m 23 still living at home out I told my mom this morning before work “hey I didn’t have time this week to straighten up don’t let cleaners in my room” I get off work and she went through my room found all my adult things and left my diary open I’mpissed
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Anonymous 6w

You have a right to privacy. Who tf opens another person’s diary

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Anonymous 6w

I seen this at the bus stop. Maybe contact them when you get enough money saved. Goodluck!! Take care of yourself!

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Anonymous 6w

You should definitely try to get your own place, you can’t have stable relationships or a stable sense of self with individuals who don’t know how to even respect your basic boundaries. You deserve privacy and the feeling of respect.

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Anonymous 6w

What should I do? How do I tell her to back tf off my personal life

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Anonymous 6w

what adult things

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Anonymous 6w

Oh my goodness, are you in trouble haha

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Anonymous 6w

Does she own the house? Thats her right…. She is not at fault at all. You are a 23 year old adult. If you dont want her going through your stuff, move out, and then you will have the real privacy you want. I get it, times are tough and rent is expensive, but obviously not too tough for your family if you have “cleaners.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I’m genuinely pissed they crossed a boundary

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

She was probably helping you clean, I believe she meant well

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Okay no need to go though all my stuff in the process and lay out all the shit I didnt want her to see on my bed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Yeah you gotta have a conversation about boundaries and you’re totally justified to feel pissed, maybe just wait until you can speak to her calmly for greater success

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I’m at the gym rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

I bought everything in that room myself I work 2 jobs ofc in trying too move out I don’t get a lick of that money in fact for a while they were taking money out my my account before I separated my bank account from theirs…

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Anonymous 6w

I’m not self harming myself and I did have thc/cbd gummies in my drawer, but that’s bc I work 2 jobs and it helps me destress and sleep at night I’m not bringing it around family/friends/work or any type of outings Ik there’s a time and place and I buy it legally so it’s not outrageously horrible I’m not on anything else I don’t even smoke it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Also you’re 23 so idt you doing gummies is their business

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

this isnt local people you know

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