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soooo my bf has been snapping a shit ton of girls and has been tryna hide it like should i be worried😭
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Anonymous 3d

Should I be worried is insane… like …. In what world is that not concerning or considered grounds to break up?? You be disrespecting yourself by allowing that treatment REAL TALK

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Anonymous 3d

No boy in a relationship should be snapping random girls If it’s family or a long term friend maybe. But also we are becoming adults Just text. Snap is so middle/high school It’s illogical. And very disrespectful to you you deserve better

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Anonymous 4d

Yall long distance?

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Anonymous 4d

Do you feel secure in the relationship anyway and that you trust him?

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Anonymous 4d

Ya u should be. If he’s being secretive of it than yes

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Anonymous 4d

What’s he snap?

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Anonymous 3d

if he's trying to hide it then it's obviously bad lol cmon now OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

we live together. he like freaked out when i asked why lol

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Anonymous replying to -> tthugnificentt 4d

yes but still makes me self conscious as horrible as that might make me look😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Feelings are human. Don’t worry if you don’t have to, but ensure that he is surely focused on you. should be no big deal, If he’s got a good heart. Watch the girls though, some people like to take from others.

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Anonymous replying to -> tthugnificentt 4d

thank you he’s the sweetest i don’t think he’d ever do anything to hurt me purposely.i am more worried about them then him ofc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I understand completely, I’ve made that kind of mistake before and hurt someone. Intentions were always good but I ended up in the mix with some characters. Just keep faith in him and do your part! Everything will follow suit. I hope everything goes well for you two

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Anonymous replying to -> tthugnificentt 4d

thank you!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

You’re welcome

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3d

ik😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

like his user?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

thank you… like if he told me ab them i’d be so fine with it but like i don’t know these girls and he’s never said anything to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Of course love. It’s hard Now it can be recovered but that will take a talk and him wanting to stop. My questions would be 1) what do you gain from snapping them 2) would you do this right next to me? 3) if it’s ‘ just because’ and ‘Doesn’t mean anything’ then there should be no problem in stopping

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

when i asked him he did say just because but he saw a issue with stopping it and said i was toxic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

You are definitely not toxic at all It’s addressing the facts of how the world works Even if he is 100 percent loyal. Why would he want to put him in a situation that makes it easy for women to flirt with him? And if you explain that this action is to help preserve and protect your relationship he has so valid “excuses”

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

Before I had a boyfriend I had a few “ friends” on snap We never really flirted but we did not have a defined friendship outside of snapping or giving little updates of “ how was your day, look at my project, oh did you see that movie” The moment he asked me out I unadded them. Because why would I not? I talked to those boys on snap because I enjoyed conversation and attention . But now I had a boyfriend who loved me and I could have all those conversations with him.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

Now full transparency I also completely deleted snap about eight months ago, so did he But this is simply because me and him, and our group of friends started wanting to communicate through text and didn’t wanna deal with snap anymore at all

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