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My girl doesn’t have a crazy past at all but I have a hard time getting over it how do I get over this
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Anonymous 1w

you should be glad she got her experimenting out of the way and chose you. sounds like she figured out what she wanted - she shouldn’t have to pay for past exploration

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Anonymous 1w

you have insecurity problems. its her PAST and youre her PRESENT and possibly FUTURE. dont ruin the future cus you cant get over the past. YOU have her now, nobody else. treat her like a princess and get over your retroactive jealousy before it ruins your relationship

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Anonymous 1w

Ik saying get over it doesn’t help and sounds harsh, but genuinely sometimes you just gotta get over it. Repeat to yourself that it doesn’t matter until you’ve internalized it. Are you jealous over your friends having friends? Do you have your own romantic history? Put things in context, and it can feel less crazy. Think of it from her shoes. She chose YOU. YOU are the one she prefers. If it helps, picture those in her past as jealous of YOU. don’t waste ever on jealousy when it could go to her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

this individual is correct

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