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Question for people in same sex relationship , especially for men , why would you allow and stay with a man that beats you ? Serious question as my gay friend just told me he’s going through this while intoxicated
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Anonymous 15w

The fear that you won’t find someone better because our dating pool is smaller is sometimes why people settle. But that def shouldn’t be happening.

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Anonymous 15w

How is this a same sex relationship issue?? It literally applies to any relationship at all- no one should allow anyone to beat them🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

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Anonymous 15w

I’m not a gay man, just queer, but I would have to infer that it’s the fear of being alone, the illusion that there’s a relationship there, and trauma turned to illness. If we’ve never been through it, we’ll never quite understand, so we just have to listen and not judge.

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Anonymous 15w

It’s hard to leave a relationship. It’s more than just the person, it’s the life you built. Mutual friends, a routine, a home, pets, hell sometimes the music and shows that you watch, plus the fact that the breakup has to actually happen and an angry ex could be more dangerous than an abusive partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

My target audience was for same sex marriage/relationship individuals because my friend is in a same sex relationship and this is his situation

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