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i just broke up with my boyfriend because he sexually assaulted me. i thought i was happy, but now im thinking about the good in our relationship and i miss him. how do i truly move on?
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Anonymous 15w

Someone who truly loves you would never do something like that to you. The good times are easier to look back on in retrospect, but you broke up with him for a reason. Things were bad, really bad if it involved SA. It’s not worth the pain, I promise. So many people out there will love you without causing you so much pain, I promise.

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Anonymous 15w

You can have good times with someone who isn’t a sexual assaulter. If he’s capable of sexual assault, he’s capable of other things. You did the right thing by leaving now instead of putting yourself through more trauma.

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Anonymous 15w

Seek the only man besides your future husband who will truely care about you everyday and won’t hurt you. Jesus Christ. He will perfect, strengthen, confirm, and establish you

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Anonymous 15w

It's never worth going back to someone who would do that to you.

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Anonymous 15w

Just remind yourself that you can’t have the good without the bad and the bad ain’t worth it. I’m glad you can remember the good, but it’s important to remember there was bad. Ofc

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

i have never been a religious person, but maybe seeking out jesus christ might help me. thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

thank you <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

thank you so much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

You’re welcome. If you have any questions don’t hesitate to DM me. Giving my life to Jesus is the only reason I’m still alive today.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

after my bf repeatedly SAd me, it helped me to understand and put things into perspective realize that behaviors like that are symptoms of systemic lack of respect—and, as others have said—that’s just one symptom of a bigger problem. and if he’s willing to push // disrespect you in that area, it means he doesn’t respect you and why should i think he would respect me in any other areas if this one which is as simple as a yes or no, he can’t respect?

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