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Is it selfish to go on a trip with your new bf, that you had planned for a year with your ex? Seems narcissistic.
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Anonymous 13w

i don’t see how it’s selfish but i can see how the new bf would find it disrespectful

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Anonymous 13w

I don’t think it’s narcissistic but if there wasn’t a way to get a refund then I guess it’s better than letting it go to waste. If they can get a refund then yes I’d prefer you make new plans with me and not recycle something you had planned with your ex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Yeah, cause also this new Bf is the guy she cheated on me with.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

Some context. This trip was with us and bunch of our friends. Few friends has told me that she is ignoring them, but at the same Mexico resort. I’m trying not care, but shes being fake to all her “friends”. Just because she knows what they will say.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Wait what? Sorry are you bi?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I don’t understand this context nothing makes sense. Who is us? Who is she? I think you’re saying she’s at the same resort as you and your friends? Are you a guy or girl? How is she ignoring the friends yet being fake with them what?? Are you at the resort too? Was she still invited after you guys broke up??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

You spoke yet I ended up more confused and with more questions than I began. You need to be more clear when “giving context”

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