Ask Anything on Yik Yak | Why is it that a lot of people are so open about talking about their sex lives? Like to me that feels like a violation of privacy if the other person doesn’t know you’re broadcasting it If/when I lose my virginity, I don’t think I’d even tell my friends

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Why is it that a lot of people are so open about talking about their sex lives? Like to me that feels like a violation of privacy if the other person doesn’t know you’re broadcasting it If/when I lose my virginity, I don’t think I’d even tell my friends

Anonymous 1d

Yeah I hear you op. Definitely feels like a violation of privacy that should be discussed beforehand if you want to share it with others

Anonymous 1d

i was raised by ppl and surrounded by people who did the same and it’s honestly fun to me i don’t share ALL the details and yk u have to know who u can trust with that but that’s kinda crazy to me u wouldn’t tell ur friends when u lose ur vcard it must be that some people are a lot more sheltered/ private

Anonymous 1d

Nothing against people who talk about it with permission of their partners obv

Anonymous

#1 1d

I’m not even that private of a person, I’ll pretty much tell people anything if they ask, but I’d never just come out with that kind of news Also it’s just not an important thing to me in general, I don’t care either way, and like I said it would feel like violating my partner’s privacy

Anonymous

#1 1d

I do get your point though, like I get the argument when you share that with close friends

Anonymous

OP 1d

Oh also, half of my family is super religious and my dad is just very vocal about all of that kind of stuff I’m not religious at all so it very much isn’t that kind of thing either

Anonymous

OP 1d

yeah i guess it’s exciting to me when something new that’s sexual happens bc im a sexual person i dont share everytime something happens if im consistently getting it but i like to kiki with my girls. i also think i wouldnt care/ would expect other people to share as long as they’re being respectful

Anonymous

OP 1d

lowkey even tho ur very not religious it could be that that shame and privacy around that subject could be engrained into ur subconscious? or like that’s how u saw other people acting so u learned to act that way

Anonymous

#1 1d

like bc in religion it’s very shunned upon

Anonymous

#1 1d

I could see that partially yeah, I’m just not a very sexual person too so it’s a bit of a foreign concept to me

Anonymous

#1 1d

Yeah fair enough Also the main reason I made the post is because all of the weird guys posting about having sex I’m also a guy and I get weirded out by all that

Anonymous

OP 1d

i also think that i might feel worse if i was a man bc men can be more disrespectful and less caring and i feel like women take sex more seriously in some cases

Anonymous

OP 1d

oh yeah i feel like sometimes guys aren’t as vulnerable with their friends and tbh i feel weird when i read those too it is kinda more gross when guys do it bc they can be more objectifying and disrespectful

Anonymous

OP 1d

mm yeah makes sense i’ve been sexually curious since i was kinda little and been talking to my friends about that stuff probably way earlier than i should’ve

Anonymous

OP 1d

also just posting ab it in general instead of just talking to friends

Anonymous

#1 1d

Exactly