Ask Anything on Yik Yak | I gone out a few times with a guy coworker , I’ve offered to pay for whatever we eat or go to he refuses . He wants to hang out again this Fritday but this is making me uncomfortable so I may say no , like is this normal or m I overthinking it ?

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I gone out a few times with a guy coworker , I’ve offered to pay for whatever we eat or go to he refuses . He wants to hang out again this Fritday but this is making me uncomfortable so I may say no , like is this normal or m I overthinking it ?

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Anonymous 1w

Bitch you’re over thinking

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Anonymous 1w

Shut up

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Anonymous 1w

Shut your piehole

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Anonymous 1w

You could be overthinking. I get it. My bf is similar (I’ve worn him down some) and it makes me uncomfortable. I don’t like feeling like I owe someone. Especially if they might expect something (often sex/intimacy/love) in return and I can’t give it. My advice is to, at the end of the date, ask to pay for the next one

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Or bring him shit like flowers or gifts.

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