
you don’t want to be a d-list guest. you want to be able to be considered and have intention towards you as you put towards them. it’s almost like steps you want to take, if you want your boyfriend to put you as an a-list guest, you’d hope your core friends do that already too. it’s really challenging when you’re in between seasons and you don’t feel like that with anyone. but that’s okay!! people are supposed to be integral in different seasons and ways