My ex took 4 vacations without me without consideration of my feelings. The worst one was when she knew I took 5 days off for my birthday months in advance and she knew it but went to a bachelorette party anyway. When I asked if she could board her dog so I could go on vacation she said it was “unfair” that one really got me.

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complaining about work but refusing to change anything to alleviate the problems

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