Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
upvote if i should get a restraining order from my abusive ex
upvote 2068 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

Yes not even a question

upvote 59 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

well my ex is blocked but she’s psycho so like idk i’m lowk scared

upvote 27 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

To get a restraining order, you must file a petition with your local courthouse, detailing the incidents of abuse or harassment, and then have a temporary restraining order (TRO) granted by a judge. If a TRO is issued, a hearing will be scheduled, where both parties can present their cases for a judge to decide on a final, longer-lasting order. You can often find the necessary forms at the courthouse or on the court's website, and victim advocates can provide assistance with the process.

upvote 13 downvote
😁
Anonymous 13w

I think you should re-read what u wrote 🤦‍♀️

upvote 10 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

yes you def should

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

Why is this even a post ?

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

Get a PFA

upvote 7 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

What’s the point of this post? Do you really need the approval of masses of internet strangers who have no connection or knowledge of situation to make a decision about your personal safety? Like… If it got a bunch of downvotes were you going to get back with them?

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

If you have to ask, then don’t.

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

girl is the sky blue??

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

Is the grass green ah question

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

Karma Farming

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

L karma farming

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

Downvoting for the plot

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

no i’m acc being serious idk what to do

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Alr can you give us context here? Or at least if you can’t, is he still attempting to contact you in any way?

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

And yes I looked it up

upvote 12 downvote
🍉
Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

The ex is female

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #11 14w

bc i’m lowk nervous and idk how to do it

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

nope

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #12 14w

no i js need advice

upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

If she hasn’t done anything or hinted that she will, then just don’t because it’s unnecessary. If she’s doing stuff to affect you though, then yes do it

upvote 10 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14w

honestly valid

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Then ask how… not if you should

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

If she hasn’t done anything and you can’t prove anything, then don’t because you’ll have to prove your charges. In NY state, you can go through criminal or family court. Family court has a lower burden of proof. However, if you cannot prove any of your allegations then she may be able to civilly sue you for costs of court, legal fees, etc. Victim advocates can help you if you go down this route. Title IX office can also issue a No Contact Order which is easier.

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #16 14w

thank you!!

upvote 5 downvote