Depends on what hole you taking. Ether way lube, condom needed. It’s okay to put more lube on after trying a little. If it’s back hole: eat light that day, go to restroom before meet up and clean well after, some people do laxatives the day before cause they worried Front hole: no scented thing, breathe and if it hurts it’s okay to tell them to stop.

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Use your tongue when you suck on it, twist your head left and right when you’re down the shaft

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