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I turn 20 in 2 months. Any tips? I feel like I’m still 13, I have no friends, hobbies, style and I keep letting my room and restroom become a mess I feel like I’m not adulting right. I have a bad habit of blaming my mess on school and work
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Anonymous 3d

You might be depressed homie. You should seek out some help to sort out what your going through at the moment

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Students get free counseling on campus

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I’m not depressed 😭 I just have bad habits, that’s what I mean by I feel like I’m still a kid, I feel like I have slowly realized I need to start adulting like other ppl and added that it’s a bummer I have no friends etc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Ok, then grow up and stop being a little bitch and fix your habits

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Well damn😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

they couldve worded it nicer but theyre right, you kinda have to become your own parent and force urself to do stuff. for me it helps to pretend im a sim and making sure all my needs are met and theres nothing making me "uncomfortable" lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

lol I like that, I think I’m going to start making daily to-do lists

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

counseling is not just for people who are depressed!!! all of these reasons are perfectly acceptable reasons to seek counseling. i genuinely suggest you do seek out the free counseling service on campus because this is something a professional might be more suited to help you with. these problems require solutions tailored to your lifestyle, personality, goals, and ability—things that we as strangers on the internet can’t really account for. good luck! you got this!

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