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Do you consider it rude when friends give you commands instead of making requests? “Be at my house at 4:00” as opposed to “can you please be at my place by 4:00?”
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Anonymous 4w

It just means they are your best friends if they do that

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Anonymous 4w

Ofc that’s not friendly that’s hella weird

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Anonymous 4w

I also have a friend who talks like that. He would return me favors after I help him out so I am cool with that! It all depends on if your friends would help u back. If yes, then it’s just their way of talking. If not, u deserve better friends!

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Anonymous 4w

as long as they dont care if i do the same

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Anonymous 4w

Somebody spoke to me in a commanding/condescending tone, saying, “ get your butt up that hill and come over”. We were not friends and we really didn’t have a rapport built. I’m a people pleaser so of course I came up even if I didn’t want to. I’ve learned so much about her and myself since then. so final answer, if you think it’s rude, they are rude

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

We’re not that close tbh, good guy but we’re not crazy close

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