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Why do girls constantly shit talk guys? My wife’s friends can never stop talking about how terrible men are, which is weird because the majority of guys are nice in the world. It’s like girls have one or two bad experiences and then blame the whole gender
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Anonymous 8w

So like as a thing why not ask your wife

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Anonymous 8w

Simple answer: because it’s trendy and because they can. It’s like swearing , they do it to vent their frustration and to pin their problems on a faceless mass instead of questioning their own accountability for the issue. Just like how incels blame women for their problems. The difference is the backlash for incels is societal exclusion, the backlash for women is non existent and often affirmed, whereas men calling women out on it are often labelled… incels.

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Anonymous 8w

It's sad you actually think most men are nice in the world. I can promise the majority isn't nice. And this is the same that holds true with men. They do the same thing. Some men act like so much of a bitch. They won't even try having a relationship. Because allegedly they're Soo heartbroken they don't want to try to get hurt anymore. They would rather have empty sex. Sometimes actually stating aloud. They want to do that for the rest of their lives. That's not nice

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Anonymous 8w

It's not fair to themselves or anybody they decide to have any interaction

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

She doesn’t understand it either. She doesn’t really like it when her friends go off on a men hating tangent

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Men are people just like women are. Some people are good, some people are bad. There’s no “majority of men are bad” just like there’s no “majority of women are bad”. It has nothing to do with gender. The majority of people in general have good intentions in this world Also you just said only “some men” act like a bitch, but you’re also trying to imply that the majority of men aren’t nice. That doesn’t really add up or make sense. We need to stop putting blame on a specific gender as a society

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

It’s not fair to all of the nice guys in the world when a girl has one bad experience with a guy and suddenly she hates every man in existence

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

The actual blame is on both. Both have taken a shit and piss on love, marriage, sex and family doing it completely bass ackwards

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

It's not fair to all the nice women in the world when a man has one bad experience with a woman and suddenly he hates every woman in existence

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

You don’t seem to understand my post. I’m not shitting on women for shitting on men. I’m complaining about how people in general like to blame an entire gender for things when that’s not how that works

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

And the same goes for men

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

What are you talking about?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

You read what I'm talking about. The same shit you typed goes for men. Men do this same bullshit you're talking about women doing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

You’re literally doing the exact thing my post is talking about. I’m trying to talk about how people of both genders are guilty of this, and you keep bringing up men only

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

“Both have taken and shit and piss on love, marriage, sex, and family”. Like what does that even mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Then I'm saying men and women don't fucking respect love, sex, marriage and family anymore. It's no longer treated as sacred when it should be

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

You brought up women only first

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

First of all I don’t see how that’s really relevant to what the post is about. But also I guess that means that my marriage to my wife has just been a lie and we don’t respect our love, family, or marriage Also the whole point I’m trying to make is that our society needs to stop pointing blame and complaining about large groups of people, and instead only calling out those individuals that need to be called out for their actions. But you’re talking about men and women as if it’s everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I was using it as a personal example and because women typically do complain about men more than men complain about women. But of course, people from each gender do it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Why do you people always take what someone types as a personal attack on their personal fucking life? Why do you involve yourself in it? Only you know if you've followed your life as morally right as what your parents taught you. If they taught you anything at all. What I do know is the majority of men and women are having kids with strangers. Thinking it's going to be some walk in the park because the sex was good

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

But the stupidly resulted pregnancy becomes a nightmare because in all reality you DK who you were fucking. Then the cycle repeats resulting multiple baby daddies and momma's. All people don't live like this though. Some manage to actually take love, sex, marriage and family seriously

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Ok well I've talked to men. They're also complaining about how psycho, manipulative, nagging and abusive women are. I've literally been turned down multiple times where a man won't give me the time of day. It's because they're still hung up on the last bitch. Thinking the next bitch is going to do then the same way

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Anonymous 8w

There you go trying to involve me in some shit I'd never put myself in. I can't believe that's the best bullshit you came up with

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