You can be but it’s hard to keep a good connection with a girl and it not escalate at all, you just find yourself in spots where your just hanging out and she’s looking good and shi, especially when you got a connection, I hope you can get what I’m getting at here. The relationship can either escalate or de escalate, no constant when it comes to opposite gender relationships
This isn’t true. I’ve had a guy bestfriend for over 5 years since my sophomore year of high school. Both of us are pretty attractive people and think the other looks good, but do know where to draw a line. We’ve had the conversation of going that far but realized we would rather not sacrifice our friendship over a sexual desire that we can get from literally anyone else atp in our generation.