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My cat passed away. Im dealing with it so so hard. anyone have any tips for dealing with grief?
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Anonymous 1w

not in substitution, but adopt another cat in his honor

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Anonymous 1w

God that sucks. First commenter is right on; think of how good a life you gave them. They’re gone from your life but you were never gone from theirs. That’s pretty special, from the cat’s perspective

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Anonymous 1w

I wish I knew what to say. I’m sorry this hurts so much. You did everything to give him a wonderful life and made his life worth living.

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Anonymous 1w

No. After my cat passed I was a mess and lived/slept in the basement for 3 months.

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Anonymous 1w

Think about the good life you gave your cat. Your cat must have enjoyed living with you and spending time with you and playing with you. Your cat lived a good life and they are probably satisfied with it. While it’s sad that they passed away, what matters the most was how much they enjoyed their life with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Thank you, he was the happiest boy ever. He passed away with a brain bleed he apparently had since he was a kitten. It hurts my heart deeply because he was so special to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

That feels so good to hear, thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Thank you :( at times i felt like i failed him by not being there as much with my busy work schedule, but my mother and family were always nurturing him even in his last weeks

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I would love to eventually, i feel like he would send one to me spiritually if thats not weird to say. He was such a special and beautiful boy :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

We all do the best we can as pet parents. We never want bad things to happen. Love them as much as you can! Dm me if you want to talk.

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