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Why don’t men give better aftercare ?? And why is it not normalized

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Anonymous 4w

maybe they don’t actually love the person that they’re with

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Anonymous 4w

I try to keep the aftercare proportional with how rough we were. 20min of rough, 40min of aftercare (20min of physical foreplay, 1hr at least of mental)

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Anonymous 4w

Lack of knowledge, probably. (I’m a guy, and I imagine that aftercare just means cuddling? And some kisses, perchance?)

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Anonymous 4w

MOST Men are STUPID AF when it comes to taking care of themselves

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Anonymous 4w

I’ve always after cared with lovers. My wife and I after care all the time.

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Anonymous 4w

Why are you being a hoe?

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Anonymous 4w

That’s why.

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Anonymous 4w

I have not reached that stage gang

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Anonymous 4w

Idk not to be a pickme but I didn’t know it was so common to not do that. Whenever I’ve dated someone hanging out and laying together / talking is always what we’ve done

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Anonymous

#1 4w

I think that’s too shallow of an answer, I think it’s not wrong but I think there’s more too it

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Anonymous

OP 4w

Yeah they might be thinking they’re being used for their bodies too. Who knows

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Anonymous

#1 4w

Who men? No way they think that I’m a man and I know that most men don’t think that.

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Anonymous

#2 4w

I’m a guy and I just learned about aftercare through this post

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