It's not hard for men to get laid my boy, it's really not. I was a virgin til like 2 years ago and thought the same shit. Your mentality is the issue, you're acting hopeless when that's not the case at all. It's all about your personality, if you can make them giggle you can make their cheeks jiggle. Girls want a guy who they feel comfortable around, it's your presence. You're probably making them uncomfortable somehow. You don't gotta be the best lookin guy either.