Anonymous yellowsaw_ 18h

Damn. :/ so weird if you’re at a bar and sage just puts in in the table, smiles and walks away? Fuck that’s my best flirt I got 😭

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Anonymous OP 17h

Dude if you approached me at a bar and smiled and slipped me that and left, I’d just be confused and think I’m being fucked with and then I’d leave

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Anonymous yellowsaw_ 17h

So you wouldn’t look at the contact info on the back?

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Anonymous OP 17h

At that point why not just sit down and have a convo with them and get to know each other?

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Anonymous yellowsaw_ 17h

I wouldn’t feel really uncomfortable if a guy did that to me. Also because I wouldn’t wanna interrupt them

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Anonymous OP 17h

*would feel really uncomfortable

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Anonymous #4 17h

like “oh look the loser from the bar actually messaged me” (it happens way too often) like it’s a solid idea if girls haven’t fucked this up for themselves overtime and posting it on social media to laugh at someone

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Anonymous #4 17h

So if I wrote im a little shy and don’t wanna disturb you but I think you’re cute and then my number on the back that’s still weird?

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Anonymous OP 17h

not that it’s weird but that it leaves us open to get made fun of because if you were shy when you gave it to us then you’ll also be shy when you actually talk to us, nothing will have changed from one point to the other, like it could work but i feel like we try our absolute best to stay away from getting flamed online

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Anonymous #4 17h

That’s the thing. I’m shy meeting new people. But apparently I’m the “life of the party” when I’m not trying to flirt. So I’m my own worst enemy

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Anonymous OP 17h

yeah if “the life of the party” slips me a note like this then i’m getting laughed at for sure because if you were out here dancing on everyone then why would you need the note

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Anonymous #4 17h

Ummm I mean like a normal bar. Your at dinner or at lunch while off work. No one’s dancing on anyone. And by life of the party I mean chatty and outgoing.

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Anonymous OP 17h

so if you’re chatty and outgoing then why wouldn’t you want to sit down and talk? gotta stop thinking about it like flirting and more like just talking

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Anonymous #4 17h

Because meeting new people is terrifying and the start of the convo is always the hardest for me…

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Anonymous OP 17h

literally all you gotta do is say hi and he normally should carry it from there

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Anonymous #4 17h

And also I was just on my lunch break at a bar and a cute guy walked in but I had to get back to the office and that’s what made me google it cause I’d be like I wish I could slide him my number and get my butt back to work

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Anonymous OP 17h

in that case just use a stick note and write, “ i think you’re cute, but i have to go back to work, call or text me sometime” and then put your number down, a hand written note means more than something printed from online because one shows nothing and the other shows effort in your writing

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Anonymous #4 17h

Yeah my anxiety can hardly handle a business card

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Anonymous OP 17h

yeah i get that but if you were hand someone a business card they’ll put it in their pocket and probably never touch it ever again like if you can’t do the handwriting then he’s going to think he’s being set up

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