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Is my bf dumb for not knowing that billionaires physically cannot run out of money unless if you're referring to a specific asset, business, etc? They simply cannot "go broke" from too many private jet trips or excess purchases.

Anonymous 4w

I wouldn’t say he’s dumb cause tbh I never thought of it at all either- like they’d have to gamble their whole net worth to go broke. However the fact that he’s attacking your character is a red flag, tread carefully

Anonymous 4w

We fought about it, he then attacked my character because apparently I'm making excuses for not having my license by now because apparently I should be like his friend and illegally drive to learn how to

Anonymous 4w

i didn’t know this

Anonymous 4w

He's not dumb for never having thought about it, necessarily, but he is an asshole for making it into a fight

Anonymous 4w

Actually both of y'all are. Someone can definitely go broke. The more money you have it will take you longer to go broke. If you're smart you shouldn't though

Anonymous

#2 4w

This is why I need to focus on myself, men’s egos take things personally when I never mean it that way

Anonymous

OP 4w

People in relationships shouldn’t be fighting like that.

Anonymous

#3 4w

It made no sense because I always beg him to take me driving, I even took an online drivers Ed course I was not required to take just so I can be complaint with upcoming laws + have cheaper insurance. (He mocked me for taking the course because he deemed it "unnecessary"). And apparently I'm making excuses even though I am making efforts

Anonymous

#2 4w

It kinda added to this scorecard because I already had this notion he lacked knowledge in certain subjects since he says "pacific" instead of "specific", says "more better" instead of "better", spells "heart" as "hart", and didn't know Abraham Lincoln wasn't a slave owner

Anonymous

OP 4w

You’re not supposed to make the person you LOVE feel small. I hope you have a great life whatever you do after this situation.

Anonymous

OP 4w

never mind ignore my other comment, he's dumb

Anonymous

#2 4w

Alright now let’s not group all men and as if it were only men. Women be doing the same thing. Sometimes even making an issue out of what they recreated in their own heads from the things we say which is totally different than what was originally intended.

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Anonymous

#4 4w

Are these qualities superficial if he's great in other areas of life? Great work ethic, generous, forgiving, observant, easily reads others' emotions, tries to see all perspectives/nuances, consistent, transparent, etc

Anonymous

#4 4w

I made it into a fight actually lol he just added to the fight

Anonymous

#4 4w

But yeah, I kinda lost it and said "this is why I was in all honors and you only had to go to school for two hours a day for self paced". After I attacked his education (or lack thereof), he attacked my character

Anonymous

OP 4w

Debating is one thing, attacking your character is another. Just because you guys don’t agree on something don’t mean he should start attacking you personally. You say he tries to see all perspectives…but really? With this and you getting your license

Anonymous

#4 4w

I always considered my parents dumb (they couldn't even help me with my 4th grade homework) but even they know this stuff 😭😭😭😭

Anonymous

#5 4w

True, like, he ignored the fact I always beg him to take me to teach me how to drive, ignored I went above and beyond by taking a driving course, and says me having people less willing to take time out of their day to teach me is me "making excuses" since he knows someone who taught themselves illegally

Anonymous

#5 4w

I've had my temps for 1 month but it took him 3 weeks to get his license

Anonymous

#5 4w

He is afraid to take me out of a parking lot and my mom is afraid to take me on a freeway or outside of a non busy residential neighborhood. It is not MY FAULT my teachers feel uncomfortable taking me certain places or that I refuse to drive illegally

Anonymous

#3 4w

Yeah I fear I may stick around and tune it out since we are tied to a friend group and a breakup would be so awkward and there's a sunk cost fallacy of "he already spent so much money on me if anything he'd have to leave me"

Anonymous

OP 4w

OP this sounds like not a very good relationship

Anonymous

#4 4w

Why is that?

Anonymous

OP 4w

Fighting about stuff like this – not healthy

Anonymous

#4 4w

Elaborate

Anonymous

OP 4w

one should generally get along with one's romantic partner

Anonymous

#4 4w

This is the first fight we had in our one month of dating

Anonymous

#4 4w

Almost two months

Anonymous

#5 4w

I never said women don’t do the same thing- I said men because I date men? Don’t take things personally

Anonymous

#2 4w

lol don’t be butt hurt just cause I was correcting the generalization you made.

Anonymous

#5 4w

I’m not butt hurt cause it wasn’t a generalization 😂