Ask Anything on Yik Yak | Am I wrong for feeling upset that my birthday is in less than a week and my boyfriend hasn’t acknowledged it and instead has been creating arguments. mind you, I spent 1k for his bday and planned it for 2 weeks. I told him how I felt & he said stop & gts

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Am I wrong for feeling upset that my birthday is in less than a week and my boyfriend hasn’t acknowledged it and instead has been creating arguments. mind you, I spent 1k for his bday and planned it for 2 weeks. I told him how I felt & he said stop & gts

Anonymous 1d

I would never spend 1k on a man

Anonymous 1d

I hate to give you bad news but this might be a sign that you’re just his sugar mama. Never spend that kind of money on a partner unless you’re married to them. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and you deserve so much better. Other than that I hope you have an amazing birthday because you are a gift to this world.

Anonymous 1d

no you’re not wrong at all. sometimes bdays just aren’t a big thing to people, depending on how they were raised! but if you mentioned how you felt he should respect and acknowledge your feelings too

Anonymous 1d

Damn homie

Anonymous 14h

Ok but that's stupid

Anonymous

#2 1d

Homegirl dropped a fucking rack on this dude, feel like the energy should at the very least be reciprocated but maybe I’m wallin who knows

Anonymous

#3 1d

Wow ur mad cool dude totally contributing so much to the conversation

Anonymous

#1 1d

no for sure i mean even if he can’t spend money like that, he def should be making an effort somewhat equal to what she put in. not trying to make excuses for him, i guess im just saying like maybe bc of the way he was raised he didn’t think it would be a big deal, but esp after she explained how she felt, he should be considerate and show some effort. i didnt word that exactly how i wanted but i think i got my point across? basically i agree w op, and he needs to step up his game

Anonymous

#1 1d

Dude what I’m just giving my opinion

Anonymous

#2 1d

Your original response was comprehended in its entirety. See you make a valid point. He cld be in a completely different financial position. Maybe he’s tweaking bc he can’t reciprocate in the same way (not defending him). However, if I was in a relationship, I’d go above and beyond regardless of my finances to reciprocate if my partner dropped a rack for me personally. Onna dead homies.

Anonymous

#3 1d

It’s not constructive twin. Your opinion is not constructive and it contributes nothing to the conversation. Keepin it a stack.

Anonymous

#1 1d

It’s not constructive 🤓🤓👆👆

Anonymous

#3 1d

Gorgeous rebuttal, you are the epitome of maturity.

Anonymous

#3 1d

This 💯

Anonymous

#1 1d

It depends on how long you’ve been with them. I wouldn’t spend that much unless I married them. My bio dad only stayed until he found a new sugar mama.