Anonymous airplaneadvice 12w

smh that’s horrible

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Anonymous OP 12w

Nah it’s real. Lives too short to do this whole do they don’t they will they won’t they thing? People worry about the small things way too much. How long have you been on delivered? How long do you wait to text back? Did they view my story? Just be straight up. Hey I really like you and I’d love to have a dinner and drinks with an optional movie night if we are feeling it. Being direct is attractive

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Anonymous airplaneadvice 12w

he shoukd tell me if he wants me that bad

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Anonymous OP 12w

Nope. Completely disagree, there could be many reasons that he hasn’t said anything to you yet. Of course I don’t know your dynamic together, but he might be waiting for you to make a move, or worried about rejection, or complicating the friendship

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Anonymous airplaneadvice 12w

1) were not friends 2) he approached me at a bar 3) i just met him a week ago but he’s dropping hints like they’re bombs but won’t say anything

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Anonymous OP 12w

Well he approached you at a bar, so he was initially attracted to you to some degree clearly. It’s only been a week. And these hints he’s giving might be be different in his eyes. In any case, ask him out on an actual date. If he’s into you, he’ll love it. If he’s not, then you’ll be able to move on before you get further invested. Win win for both you guys

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Anonymous airplaneadvice 12w

true i just won’t see him for 3 mos so no point in doing it rn

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Anonymous OP 12w

Ah, yes, if you guys live pretty far away over break, that would be a good reason to wait

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Anonymous airplaneadvice 12w

ya that’s what o thought

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Being honest, direct, and confident is an attractive quality, and confidence really is one of those things you can fake into being real. The only one that doesn’t know you’re confident is you. Just saying hey I’m really interested in you and getting to know you more, could I take you out on a date? If they say no they’ll be flattered and you’ll have your answer. No ambiguity.

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Anonymous airplaneadvice 12w

this is true but also in my eyes this man is conventionally attractive and tall and girl throw themselves at him like it literally happened when we were talking outside the bar so that was my only reason for saying that

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Anonymous OP 12w

Well, all the more reason to make a move when you can

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