Anonymous #2 11w

It’s not a dumb question, most girls don’t do this shit so why would we expect guys to unless we’ve been told so?

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Anonymous #1 11w

This has nothing to do with being a man or a woman I’m a woman myself, I’ve never even been in a relationship, but it’s naive to think that there aren’t men out there that get off on women other than their gfs- it’s literally one of the most popular relationship issues where women get mad at their men for watching p0rn or liking other women’s bikini pics or even s3xting other women- that’s why I said you have to be really naive to wonder something like this.

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Anonymous #2 11w

Idk it just pisses me off because people act like it’s normal and that it’s ridiculous for women to be upset at their boyfriends for doing these things. When I think it’s a perfectly reasonable assumption that your partner of your monogamous relationship wouldnt be masturbating to other people.

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Anonymous #1 11w

It’s like asking, “do people really rob 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺” yeah mfers are out here pocket picking and breaking into houses we’d never do something like this but you’d be silly to think there aren’t other people out there that would and do.

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Anonymous #1 11w

Here’s where you’re wrong though- just because you feel it’s ridiculous it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Like I said in my other comment, we may think robbing or offing someone or cheating or pulling of something low on a family member, all may be wrong and despicable things. But that doesn’t mean other’s won’t continue doing them. You’re also wrong to assume all people think like you. I’ve heard of many couples who are perfectly fine with their partners watching p0rn or, hell, there’s a

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Anonymous #2 11w

Yeah I get what you’re saying in that it could be considered a naive question. And I’m aware some people are okay with it. But I think just looking at a bigger picture it angers me because it’s so normalized to objectify women and use them that way even when you’re in a committed relationship.

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Anonymous #2 11w

Reason open relationships exist! Some people don’t even mind their partners full on sleeping with other people. So you’re also wrong to assume everyone sees their partner getting off to other people as something bad or negative. I am with you in that I wouldn’t like my partner doing this but I can’t stop anyone else from not feeling the same as me and it will continue to happen so don’t be so judgmental and think that everyone has your same opinions and tastes.

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Anonymous #1 11w

Sugar, there are even women that “objectify” men even if they’re in a relationship. This isn’t a gender thing and more a lifestyle and interest thing- what people like and don’t like. Some people think that the idea of humans being monogamous is absolutely ridiculous, what can we do with them? Nothing. There are both women and men (not all obviously), that despite being in relationships, will “objectify” the other gender, as you call it.

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