Anonymous #1 17w

I’ve been back and forth about it. Because why is it I have to be the one to fix it, especially if it’s her problem. She’s the one who stopped talking and stopped trying if she has a problem with something I did but I really did not do anything then shouldn’t she be the one to bring it up and start a talk? Sorry for context she’ll act weird and I’m always the one to break the ice and actually address the weirdness and now I’m wondering if she just doesn’t value the friendship enough to do that

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Anonymous OP 17w

So what you do? You're the one asking you DK how to fix it. But you really do though. The both of you are in this silly ass cycle of her pouting over something you've done possibly. Then you're the one that constantly the adult about it. Why don't you wait and let her talk to you for once. If she never talks then you should know what time it is after that. Where it may be time to re evaluate your friendship. That's why you don't have roommates. No one has time for that childish shit

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Anonymous #2 17w

That’s what I’m doing right now but what if she never talks to me. And then that’s just it? Before there’s fr nothing that was done that could have made her mad like I legit don’t get what happened. But is that what you’re saying that matching her no interaction energy is the right move? I can’t tell if I should just suck it up and ask her or wait for her to finally stop acting like this

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Anonymous OP 17w

If she’s really your best friend then def talk to her. It’s probably not even about you! You should be there to support her if she is going through something, and if it is something you did then you need to talk about creating a space where she feels safe to tell you next time. Of course if there’s other stuff going on then it is a choice of how much you care about the friendship but if it’s hurting you then you should definitely talk to her

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