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Ive been talking to this guy for a month and its been going really well. only problem is that we're long distance and havent met in person. Should I ask them to be my boyfriend? or should i wait a couple months in order to ask him in person?
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Anonymous 3w

the way I went about it is I pretty much said "I'm not expecting exclusivity from you right now, but I think we're at a point where we should start thinking about what direction we're going" and they went ahead and said they wouldn't want a relationship until we met in person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

(we just had our 4yr anniversary 🥰)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

aww that's really good advice thank you :) i know i shouldn't rush things but idk i feel like we already talk to each other like we're a couple. And idk i dont want that to stop but i also feel like we should be in a relationship if we already are doing relationship things. I'm kinda new to this kinda stuff tho so im really not sure😅

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