Anonymous #2 1w

I have a HARD time going outside

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

I can’t even meet people 💀. Super introverted when I’m on my own

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Anonymous OP 1w

You can get to know people in your own comfortable way. If you get to know someone online there is always the risk it’s not them or they are playing a character. If you’re in your 20’s don’t sweat it, everyone in their 20’s are usually trying to build their own life first before meeting someone.

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

Uhhhhhhhhh

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeah that’s fair

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Anonymous #3 1w

OMFG😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Shit.

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Anonymous OP 1w

You can do all that same stuff virtually over discord and zoom

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Anonymous OP 1w

You didn’t think that far??💀💀💀

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Anonymous #3 1w

I’ve had 6 hours of sleep since Friday. I’m trying my best😭😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous #4 1w

Probably not safe either

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Anonymous #5 1w

I’ll most likely never will. I’ve opened up enough times to realize that it’s not worth it

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Anonymous OP 1w

Well no not with that attitude you won’t. Wanting to hook up OR wanting to get married requires a willingness to be vulnerable, take risks, take rejection, learn about yourself and others and how to spot red flags better. Those are things you can absolutely learn to do but if you’re not willing to you’ll never get either of the things you say you want.

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Anonymous #5 1w

I’ve been rejected 5 times. I think that’s enough for my heart. It can’t take another

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

And even if you’re not life doesn’t magically end after 29–even if how you meet someone can be different or a bit harder. Some of the people that met someone or made it in life are gonna have to start over at some point in some way regardless. To live is to exist a constant state of rebirth.

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Anonymous OP 1w

In what time frame? And are you actually learning things from those rejections or are you just wallowing in your feelings or helplessness and self hate?

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Anonymous #5 1w

That’s not the whole truth. I’ve never made a move on anyone. Ever

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Anonymous OP 1w

So it’s not the truth at all then—you just lied. If you’re refusing to do things to meet people who you could ask out or hook up with you’re not gonna meet people to date or hook up with. You gotta figure out other parts of your life, yourself, your friendships, and what’s holding you back and address those things FIRST before you even think about doing anything else. It’s a marathon not a sprint. Good luck OP.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeahh that too.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Soo you're entertaining this nonsense and this person is complaining over some shit they can fix?

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Anonymous #6 1w

You can’t just fix it

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Anonymous OP 1w

Why not?

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Anonymous #6 1w

Because I wired my brain this way for years. Now think I’m an insomniac. Like my eyes are tearing right now and I have work today

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Anonymous #6 1w

I’m “Entertaining nonsense” by pointing out the redundancy?

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Anonymous OP 1w

So you can fix it like I thought with therapy and/or meds. You just haven't or don't

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Anonymous #6 1w

Therapy probably not. Meds? I abuse meds. I’ve gotten serotonin syndrome from my prescription so I rather not take drugs

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Anonymous OP 1w

As previous comments suggest, you should join a group environment that is a safe space for you to slowly open up with them whether it begins in person or starts online and leads to in person. Being reintroduced into society is not impossible. You can avoid large gatherings and still go outside.

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Anonymous OP 1w

You're a pitiful excuse for a grown person. With all that you're doing, you seem like you have no desire to be a better person. At this point in your life you do need to give up having anything with anyone until you decide you want to do better with yourself. Otherwise you'll make whomever's with you their life a living hell

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Anonymous #6 1w

Woah. Take a breath. This isn’t the way.

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

This person basically refused therapy. When it comes to taking pills that was another excuse

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

At some point you have to want to help yourself. No one else can do it for you but you

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Anonymous #6 1w

Why are you getting worked up by this yik yak post?? If it’s a lost cause then you can ignore the post

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Anonymous #6 1w

Okay yes, I don’t know this person’s full story and neither do you. This is now sounding more personal to you and at this state of mind, you are no help.

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

Ok and in your mind I'm not. That's you over there doing all that. So you're gonna make shit something that it's not. Why IDK?

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Anonymous #3 1w

It's sad you think that's worked up

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

I forgot you people frown upon the cold brutal truth no matter how it's delivered

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Anonymous #6 1w

I disagree, there is a way to deliver things. Getting worked up over something and not being able to step back is immature behavior. Now that you’re getting called out, you’re projecting. Take your own advice and take accountability.

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

Why are y'all still at me worked up? Y'all need to let that go. That's the all in your feels that I'm talking about. The difference between me and you is I can handle the truth no matter how it's delivered. The truth is the truth. If I had nickel for how many times I've read this in your feels nonsense. I'd be a billionaire

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Anonymous #6 1w

Yes you’re worked up, you’re arguing with OP and whoever else is in this thread while also insulting OP when OP didn’t blame anyone else but themselves for their current state

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

And since you're telling me what I'm feeling and doing knowing you're on a phone. This convo is over. You can take that silly in your feels nonsense over to the person that wants a SO. But won't go to therapy and needs their mother to give them pills

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Anonymous #3 1w

How you gonna tell me what I'm feeling and you're on a phone? The idiocy is so real

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Anonymous #3 1w

Literally me trying not to be petty right now with #6 because I’m grown.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Arguing? I asked questions. They answered. It read like a crock of shit. The end. That's arguing to you?

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Anonymous #3 1w

Something is wrong with you way down deep inside telling a stranger what they're feeling

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

Well that pic bullshit just got you blocked BYEEEEE

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Anonymous #6 1w

You’re literally doing the same thing but continue to go off

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Anonymous #6 1w

That’s the worst advice I’ve heard

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

What the heck happened

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Anonymous OP 1w

It’s not worth it. They even took their comments off.

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Anonymous wing_leader 1w

I was sooooo confused. He clearly had some issues going on in life. I didn’t say anything wrong did I?

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Anonymous OP 1w

No that other person was a tweaker

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Anonymous #7 1w

I do it for the boredom 🤷

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Anonymous #5 1w

I understand your point but I don’t agree with it. That is the minority, the majority of people in their 20’s are in college or going off to explore the world and then coming back to finish school. Not everyone is dealt the same hand but the majority of people in their 20’s are finding themselves so my point still stands, I don’t know what you’re arguing.

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Anonymous OP 1w

You do what for the boredom?

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Anonymous #7 1w

The med abuse. I’ll do anything to chase dopamine

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeah you gotta fix that mate. Seek Holy Orthodox bro 🤙

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Anonymous #7 1w

The one time I actually needed health insurance 😒

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Anonymous OP 1w

Sooo I guess I’ll have to hang out for a couple more months 🫩🫩🫩

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Anonymous OP 1w

Homie what.

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