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Should I just give up dating, marriage and having kids just to fuck random people? I have no faith in finding a gf anymore.
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Anonymous 17w

How are you gonna fuck random people if you also don’t go outside?

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Anonymous 17w

Nope Just get out there and do stuff with groups of people like volunteering or professional orgs. You might meet someone, someone might try to set you up.

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Anonymous 17w

Bold of you to assume you’ll find random people to F with 😂😂😂🤣

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Anonymous 17w

I was gonna say you could still do both but it sounds like you aren’t gonna do either right now anyways tbh

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Anonymous 17w

Y'all have been petty trying to tell a stranger what they're feeling. Your phones are making you people real sick in the head

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Anonymous 17w

Jesus. I’m reading through the comment and oh my lord. It feels like I’m in middle school

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Anonymous 17w

Before you look for a gf to get married to (better than sleeping around town getting STDs), how about you begin to fix yourself first. For instance, your insomnia problem and medication abuse that you discussed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

I have a HARD time going outside

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

OMFG😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Shit.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

You can do all that same stuff virtually over discord and zoom

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

You didn’t think that far??💀💀💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

I’ve had 6 hours of sleep since Friday. I’m trying my best😭😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

Probably not safe either

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17w

I’ll most likely never will. I’ve opened up enough times to realize that it’s not worth it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Well no not with that attitude you won’t. Wanting to hook up OR wanting to get married requires a willingness to be vulnerable, take risks, take rejection, learn about yourself and others and how to spot red flags better. Those are things you can absolutely learn to do but if you’re not willing to you’ll never get either of the things you say you want.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17w

I’ve been rejected 5 times. I think that’s enough for my heart. It can’t take another

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

In what time frame? And are you actually learning things from those rejections or are you just wallowing in your feelings or helplessness and self hate?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17w

That’s not the whole truth. I’ve never made a move on anyone. Ever

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

So it’s not the truth at all then—you just lied. If you’re refusing to do things to meet people who you could ask out or hook up with you’re not gonna meet people to date or hook up with. You gotta figure out other parts of your life, yourself, your friendships, and what’s holding you back and address those things FIRST before you even think about doing anything else. It’s a marathon not a sprint. Good luck OP.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Yeahh that too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

Soo you're entertaining this nonsense and this person is complaining over some shit they can fix?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

You can’t just fix it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Why not?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

Because I wired my brain this way for years. Now think I’m an insomniac. Like my eyes are tearing right now and I have work today

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

I’m “Entertaining nonsense” by pointing out the redundancy?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

So you can fix it like I thought with therapy and/or meds. You just haven't or don't

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

Therapy probably not. Meds? I abuse meds. I’ve gotten serotonin syndrome from my prescription so I rather not take drugs

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

As previous comments suggest, you should join a group environment that is a safe space for you to slowly open up with them whether it begins in person or starts online and leads to in person. Being reintroduced into society is not impossible. You can avoid large gatherings and still go outside.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

You're a pitiful excuse for a grown person. With all that you're doing, you seem like you have no desire to be a better person. At this point in your life you do need to give up having anything with anyone until you decide you want to do better with yourself. Otherwise you'll make whomever's with you their life a living hell

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Anonymous 17w

This person basically refused therapy. When it comes to taking pills that was another excuse

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Anonymous 17w

At some point you have to want to help yourself. No one else can do it for you but you

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

Why are you getting worked up by this yik yak post?? If it’s a lost cause then you can ignore the post

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Anonymous 17w

Ok and in your mind I'm not. That's you over there doing all that. So you're gonna make shit something that it's not. Why IDK?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

It's sad you think that's worked up

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Anonymous 17w

I forgot you people frown upon the cold brutal truth no matter how it's delivered

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Anonymous 17w

Why are y'all still at me worked up? Y'all need to let that go. That's the all in your feels that I'm talking about. The difference between me and you is I can handle the truth no matter how it's delivered. The truth is the truth. If I had nickel for how many times I've read this in your feels nonsense. I'd be a billionaire

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

Yes you’re worked up, you’re arguing with OP and whoever else is in this thread while also insulting OP when OP didn’t blame anyone else but themselves for their current state

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Anonymous 17w

And since you're telling me what I'm feeling and doing knowing you're on a phone. This convo is over. You can take that silly in your feels nonsense over to the person that wants a SO. But won't go to therapy and needs their mother to give them pills

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

How you gonna tell me what I'm feeling and you're on a phone? The idiocy is so real

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

Arguing? I asked questions. They answered. It read like a crock of shit. The end. That's arguing to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

Something is wrong with you way down deep inside telling a stranger what they're feeling

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Anonymous 17w

Well that pic bullshit just got you blocked BYEEEEE

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

You’re literally doing the same thing but continue to go off

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

That’s the worst advice I’ve heard

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Anonymous 17w

What the heck happened

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Anonymous 17w

I was sooooo confused. He clearly had some issues going on in life. I didn’t say anything wrong did I?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

No that other person was a tweaker

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17w

I do it for the boredom 🤷

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

You do what for the boredom?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17w

The med abuse. I’ll do anything to chase dopamine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Yeah you gotta fix that mate. Seek Holy Orthodox bro 🤙

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17w

The one time I actually needed health insurance 😒

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Sooo I guess I’ll have to hang out for a couple more months 🫩🫩🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Homie what.

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