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Is it wrong to not want to give my bf head?
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Anonymous 3w

No you’re not wrong. You should be 100% comfortable when it comes to sex. He’s not wrong for wanting head tho he’s wrong for making you feel bad. You guys are just not sexually compatible

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Anonymous 3w

NOT wrong at all, ESPECIALLY if he doesn’t give you head too (but even if he does you don’t have to). If that’s a dealbreaker for him (which it shouldn’t be tbh) then he can go get it somewhere else.

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Anonymous 3w

No

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah. I'm in a relationship where my gf has decided to stop giving head. It makes me pretty sad. If I don't like the idea pf going the rest of my life with no head. I wish we had better male sex toys/VR headsets.. Someday... *sigh* Then I can just get my physical needs out of the way without ever even considering asking a woman to be uncomfortable.

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Anonymous 3w

It’s something that should be communicated early on (when sex starts being part of the relationship). Often times there is an uncommunicated expectation that can lead to resentment later on if not delt with.

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Anonymous 3w

Yes it’s wrong

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Anonymous 3w

Just don’t expect any head back if you don’t wanna give any

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Okay bc he tried to make me feel bad about and was acting like it was needed. "if your not going to please me who’s supposed to do it" was his words.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yeah that’s not ok, he’s allowed to want it but he’s not allowed to coerce, manipulate, or force you to give it to him. You don’t owe him anything at all and if he wants it that bad it’s his own problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Why do yall keep dating jerks

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Some dudes (more than we like to think) pretend to be nice until they don’t get what they want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

^^^^^^^^^^^^^

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