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I am a closet bi woman and I have fallen hard for a girl and I can’t tell if she wants to be friends or is interested romantically. I would love it if she was romantically interested but I’m scared she is not and I’m scared to date my first woman.
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Anonymous 15h

Do you know if she’s an ally at least? Start there and do some investigating. If you can, find a friend who you can confide in You’re not alone. Good luck ♥️♥️

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Anonymous 13h

I hope things go well for you all! I second User 1's advice on trying to see if she is an ally at least because that can help with deciding whether you'd feel comfortable trying to ask her out. Best wishes!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

I’m not sure if she is but I can ask around or maybe lowball it. I shall talk to my buddy who knows I’m bi. Thank you so much!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Of course!! Feel free to dm too, but I’m not there and don’t know the situation so I’m way less helpful haha

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