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If your boyfriend went to a strip club knowing that you consider it a half step below cheating would you break up with him?
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Anonymous 11w

no clue why #1 going so hard bc regardless if it’s the strip club or the grocery store he violated a boundary you clearly have communicated and that’s not cool. it’s not abt him going to the strip club it’s abt him not respecting your feelings enough to stand behind that boundary

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Anonymous 11w

Yes. If the boundaries were discussed then you should stick to your guns and follow through HOWEVER, I think it's silly AF that you think men going to the strip club is cheating. I would have no prob with my man going. Just don't lie about going. Men are visual. They like to look, maybe even touch. But as long you're keeping your dick reserved to me. That's all that matters

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Anonymous 11w

yes, the fuck?

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Anonymous 11w

Yes. If he can’t respect a boundary like this what’s stopping him from actually cheating. His is a major red flag. Don’t waste anymore of you time with this douche.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

It’s my own personal boundary, I don’t want my man out lusting over other women and then come home to me like that’s not disrespectful

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

A highly communicated personal boundary **

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Ok then are you ready to lose your man?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

He's coming home to you fucking your brains out from the visuals though

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I just personally find it vile and disgusting

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Ok then are you ready to lose your man?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

And you ready to possibly keep losing your man over this?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

No, I obviously love him and he’s never ever done anything like this but he violated a massive boundary of mine and I’m not sure how I can respect him after this if he doesn’t show me that he cares about my feelings, my emotional well being, and tbh my dignity It’s just so insane to me because I think I bring up how much I hate strip clubs and we have a whole convo about it at least once a month.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Actually agreed a few months ago that if he could get enough votes on a Reddit poll and won his bet I would go with him. Bet was something like “would you go to a strip club with your man” He lost his bet overwhelmingly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

So you think it's a good idea having the same convo every month?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

It’s just something that gets brought up often, he’s planning his friends bachelor party

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Which one is it? Is it only often because of the bachelor party? Or is it just often period?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

You had to have missed the first paragraph of the reply

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