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Ive never cheated and wont ever. I love my bf more than anything. But I do feel attracted to other men while in a relationship. The other day this REALLY hot guy hit on me. I rejected him, but I def felt like it. What do yall think about it?
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Anonymous 1w

It's in our nature to be physically attracted to other people, but being attracted to who someone is is what builds a relationship. If you connect on a deeper level than physical attraction with someone other than your bf, that should be your sign to breakup and explore different relationships. I think it's also okay to be honest with yourself and your bf that you find other people attraction bc I'm sure he does too-again human nature. Idk if that's helpful, but I've definitely felt the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I’ve tried talking to him but we got into a fight bc he keeps saying that its wrong and that I shouldnt feel that way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

That’s him being a bit jealous and a bit hurt ego wise, one good on you for being honest and communicative. Two tell him while you won’t leave, you are with him for more than just committed to being in a relationship, let him know all the qualities that you like about him that the other person didn’t And after a few days let him know being honest and open with him is more valuable than some eye candy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Ill try that tyy!

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